How Can I learn Some Dirty Things to Say?
Anyone can go and learn a script of dirty things to say to their partner. This is the type of predictable dirty talk you might find in a bad movie. This would actually be a major turn off, rather than anything else for most people. Who wants to hear some corny phrases some random person on the internet told them to say?
For me, real dirty talk is all about spontaneity, and it is entirely situational. This type of intimate communication should come from within a person and always relate to the sexual experiences you have together. It should in no way never be something someone once said to a cheap hooker or heard in a porn movie!
Being able to talk dirty in that kind of way just comes naturally for some extroverted people, while others can find it an incredibly difficult or even impossible task to be able to communicate with their partners in this kind of way. However, if you have the will to learn, literally anyone can overcome these barriers that might hold be holding you back.
Why do you want to learn how to talk dirty?
Some people just want to try something new or to maybe rekindle some of the dwindling passion in their long-term relationships. Learning how to talk dirty can definitely help to inject some life back into any relationship, if it is taken seriously from both sides.
The fear of the embarrassment and awkwardness it could potentially bring is enough to scare a lot of people away. If you’re feeling like you’re being pressured into finding dirty things to say to your partner, it can make the whole process a million times harder. This can put unnecessary strain on any relationship.
It’s a crucial factor that you want to learn how to talk dirty and develop your personality in this way for yourself. You should never even contemplate doing something like this just to keep someone else happy. If you don’t have that hunger to learn this for yourself, you will never be able to deliver anything without it looking totally unnatural.
Take action and begin to develop your character…
Whatever the reason you want to learn how to talk dirty, the key to being successful involves developing your character, overcoming any barriers that are holding you back, and gaining the crucial self-confidence you need to be able to express yourself in a sexual way.
That is exactly what I’m in the process of trying to do myself. I was once an incredibly shy introverted girl who would blush at the slightest thing. While I wouldn’t consider myself as an expert with seduction, I have come a long, long way from that timid person I used to be.
The progress I have made was largely from the help I got from Evan Michael’s & Jess Summers excellent Dirty Talk Tips. This extensive guide has really helped me to get into the right frame of mind in order to even contemplate myself talking dirty.
The guide itself comes in two forms, one for men, and another for women. I can only speak from the viewpoint of the women’s guide, but I am pretty sure the guide for men is equally as good. The guide is crammed with excellent dirty talking tips and it even comes with a loads of free material that can help you to succesfully develop other aspects of your sexual relationships.
Of course, I want to share with you what I have learned and my progress through this blog, that’s why I created it. However as I’m still very much in the learning process myself, all I can do is share with you what has helped and worked for me. Check out some of my Blog Posts to find out more!